A Beautiful Mind
Tuesday, September 28, 2004
Why clone humans.....??
To bring back a child killed in an accident:
To replicate the talents of exceptional human beings:
Out of curiosity or to attempt some sort of immortality :
Monday, September 27, 2004
Puppies for Sale........!!
The little boy reached in his pocket and pulled out some change . “I have $2.37,” he said. “Can I please look at them?”
The store owner smiled and whistled and out of the kennel came the Lady, who ran down the aisle of his store followed by five teeny, tiny balls of fur. One puppy was lagging considerably behind. Immediately the little boy singled out the lagging, limping puppy and said, “What is wrong with that little dog?”
The store owner explained that the veterinarian had examined the little puppy and discovered it didn’t have a hip socket. It would always limp. It would always be lame.
The little boy became excited. “That is the little Puppy I want to buy.”The store owner said, “No, you don’t want to buy that little dog. If you really want him, I’ll just give him to you.”
The little boy got quite upset. He looked straight into the store owner’s eyes, pointing his finger, and said , ”I don’t want you to give him to me. That little dog is worth every bit as much as all the other dogs and I’ll pay full price. Infact, I’ll give you $2.37 right now, and 50 cents a month until I have him paid for.”
The store owner countered, “You really don’t want to buy this dog. He is never going to be able to run and jump and play with you like the other puppies.”
To this, the little boy reached down and rolled up his pant leg to reveal a badly twisted, crippled left leg supported by a big metal brace. He looked up at the store owner and softly replied. “Well, I don’t run so well myself, and the little puppy will need someone who understands!”
Sunday, September 26, 2004
Modern Paradox.........!!
The paradox of our time in history is that...We have taller buildings,but short tempers;
Wider freeways,but narrower viewpoints;
Learnt how to make living ,but not a life;
We spend more but have less;
Buy more but enjoy less;
Multiplied possessions , but reduced values ;
Bigger houses but smaller families;
More conveniences ,less time;
More knowledge ,less judgment;
More experts,less solutions ;
Conquered space but not inner space;
High incomes,low morals;
These are times of tall men of shorter characters;
Steep profiles but shallow relationships;
Fancier houses but broken homes
It is time when much in show window but nothing in stockroom
Added years to life but not life to years;
We are always getting ready to live,but never living .
(Read an article recently on liar's paradox , so jotted down some modern paradox!!)
Saturday, September 25, 2004
A short poem by me
What do they own .....??I don't like a person for his fame,as he may loose someday.
I don't care for his name,as his parents gave him one day.
I m not concerned for the way they look,
tall or short,
beautiful or smart,
since God gifted it to them.
I least bother for their money,as money always comes & goes.
Tribute
I had read that he was father of Indian nuclear research program but now only came to know he was witty & touched heart of all his friends,lover of dogs & excellent pianist.When someone said to him that its difficult to imagine nuclear scientists can be good pianists,he said "They think science is rational,music is irrational;whereas i think both are irrational."
We need more people like this who are intelligent but generous at heart.
What you can be?
"About all you can do in life is be who you are.Some people will love you for YOU.
Most will love you for what you can do to them,
and some won't like you at all."
Be who you are.
~Rita Mae Brown~
(I always say to people i meet whether they are friends or stranger that value those people who love you for YOU, and not for a particular reason.I keep humming the song "Love me for a reason , let the reason be LOVE......" ;-) )
Friday, September 24, 2004
Memoirs
Tuesday, September 21, 2004
Dubiousness .......but why??
Many of my friends mailed me about factuality of existence of Mr.X & questioning his character.They said "If any such person exists you must not have found him good,practical & understanding that's why you annoyed him to that extent, else you are not the one who ever leaves friends in between & ever does this to them."
****The middle portion moved to personal blog****
You know friendship is digital for me....i learnt a lot from the person i met accidentally & respect him. If he ever thinks someday i could have been his friend, he will definitely turn back.But if i have understood him even a little bit, it will never happen ;-), against all odds if it happens he proves my understanding about his psychology wrong, which till now has practically never happened, and who knows this better than all you friends there ;-).....anywayz.....Still do you all consider its a fictional character??;-)
Irony of life
If you are given a take-home exam, you will forget where you live.
Smile . . . tomorrow will be worse. :-)
Everybody lies; but it doesn't matter since nobody listens.(Look for someone who listens to you, give them trust which you expect from them,I bet they would never lie )
Most people deserve each other.
(People usually realize this only when they get separated. If you have realized this just now, ;-) go & give them a call they will return to you if they really considered you are important to them.)
Simple & Logical proof for Kovac’s Conundrum “How would I have known its wrong number, if the phone happened to be engaged.”
Keep anything long enough and you can throw it away. Throw it away and you will need it next day. This applies to non-living things & to living as well. ;-)
Here goes the quote: Friendship is like good health, value is unknown till the friend is lost.
Monday, September 20, 2004
What plays major role in life : IQ or EQ??
COMPARISONS
KEY POINT
Saturday, September 18, 2004
Are Men from Mars,Women from Venus?
Everything begins with a magical word called "Love" .But as the magic recedes and daily life takes over, it emerges that men continue to expect women to think and react like men, and women expect men to feel and behave like women. Without a clear awareness of our differences, we do not take the time to understand and respect each other. We become demanding, resentful, judgmental, and intolerant.
With the best and most loving intentions love continues to die. Somehow the problems creep in. The resentments build. Communication breaks down. Mistrust increases. Rejection and repression result. The magic of love is lost.
When a woman is upset about something and expresses the same to a ’man’; he, by nature, offers solutions proudly putting on his Mr.Fix-It cap, when all she wants is empathy. Women, on the other hand, offer unsolicited advice in the same situation, which may not be appreciated.People ask themselves How does it happen?Why does it happen?Why does it happen to us?
In the recent months I got a chance to read a part of John Gray's "Men are from Mars,Women are from Venus". The above thoughts are inline with it.Although I do not fully agree to it but found quite a bit resemblance in the real life.I tried to co-relate this with my old friends. In the mean time accidentally i got to talk Mr.X on my maiden anonymous chat. Mr. X is a nice person & a profound software professional. Something energized my psychoactive brain with thoughts of looking for the truth on psychology of a person I knew the least.Being a reader of psychology I knew that men usually look for a girl with either of two kinds of combination of characteristics:
1) Beautiful but dumb, romantic but homely, smart but not mentally ;-)
2) Loving but not possessive, Romantic but outgoing, Practical and highly Understanding.
In 1-2 sessions I got to know that our Mr.X has inclination for 2nd type. The test to be conducted now had two phases, first to get acquainted to Mr.X & then next to look for reactions on difference of opinion. For the 2nd phase I had to work hard by proving myself as dumb & impractical as possible. I remember once when he was asking me to date a few guys to make a proper decision for myself, I asked the dumbest of questions “What is dating?” and imagine the answer. A real geeky one, “Go, & search google”. I can’t control my laughter thinking about it now also. If in any such situation a girl expects such a practical person to romantically explain that what is a date, I think she is an idiot.
Many a times I suggested Mr. X to ignore me & stop talking. At every point in time, I had it in my mind that I have to end this loop. Because of the simple reason that I believe that no one can appreciate really a person for his/her thoughts only without knowing personally. I arrest myself from anonymous chat, so finally brought that to an end by disturbing Mr.X at all odd hours of the day & proving myself as highly impractical & dumb as possible, without hurting & leaving Mr.X with a happy illusion that he himself has stopped talking to me since I m not his type of person.
In all this I have firmly started believing that handling our relations is purely in our hands, we can make a person our friend or enemy just by understanding or misunderstanding.
Very few people, indeed, are able to grow in love. Yet, it does happen. When men and women are able to respect and accept their differences then love has a chance to blossom.
Love is magical, and it can last, if we remember our differences.
For ex, if an unknown girl proposes our Mr. X ,then he will think-“Why does she likes me?”, “Is there something called real love?”, “Has this girl no ethical values?”, “Doesn’t this girl has something sensible to do?” .Same applies to a girl if any unknown guy proposes her. Result is a tragic end without a beginning, without thinking what other person can really do for them in life.
The reason is that we have a mentality that we ignore things which come easily to us. We dislike food which we daily get, we rarely read books which are on our shelves & always ignore persons who care & pray for us even when we don’t.
In short, we always search for people we like & not those who like us. If we understand the feelings of people around us who love us unconditionally without expectations (more on it later), who cry for us, who smile for us, who keep waiting for us when we leave them alone, who pray for our well-being to the god silently, who look at us even when we don’t, who believe some day we would understand their feelings & return to them, then I don’t think there is need of any such book.
Suggested reading: “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”
Disclaimer: Any resemblance to any person is highly co-incidental. If God forbid Mr. X some how read this my apologies in advance as I have learnt a lot about life from you.
Sunday, September 12, 2004
DNA meets RFID ?
The key to this multifunctional gadget, bringing unprecedented convenience, lies in a tiny chips, the low cost Radio FrequencyIdentification (RFID) tags in the form of silicon chips which can be used as an intelligent barcode with programmable memory. But how RFID meets DNA & why should this happen??
Who's that person?
Who's that person?One who plays a vital role in your life, who ??Thats a Friend. If you wait for someone's phone call, email, sms or message then it means they are important part of your life & better express this to them. How the person occupied such a position.There is a definite process by which one made people into friends, and it involved talking to them and listening to them for hours at a time.Friendship is a gradual process, which passes through numerous stages of discontent & disagreement before a bond is developed between two persons.
It is one of the most beautiful relationships under the sun. The person can be part of your family--father,ma,sis,brother or a stranger,anyone can be your friend. Experience says relationships which last on friendship are forever. Because only friends allow you to be yourself. Only friends give you a right to laugh, share, scold, fight,cry,love & hate them, because those who are not friends anyways don't bother about you. If & only if someone admires you as a friend your opinion matters for them. At times we get angry with our loved ones or fight with them, but that is also a part of the beautiful relationship we share with them. If a person doesn't allow you to behave naturally then the beauty of the relation fades away gradually.Friends are there until the end, always themselves, they don't pretend.They're not afraid to be seen with you, they are there to listen when you're depressed.Friends are the people you should know the best. And the best way to know your friend is to be one, to allow them to be themselves.
"Unfortunately, some people believe their schedules are more important than their lives." David Leonhardt,as quoted inThe Reader's Digest.
My personal opinion is : Friendship enters when ego leaves.We often spend half of our lives for our careers & fighting with people we like & the rest half thinking we shouldn't have done this.We often keep on waiting for other person to take the initiative & respond; with a stupid idealogy that if the person values us equally they should approach us first & with that loose some of the persons we should have cherished in our life. Relationships are above reasons & logic, & there is no specific time or day to express our emotions.It is better if we meet the person we like with smile, as its said it may be the only smile the person views that day & ever after. People once gone never come back, and it is in our hands how far we can take the important relationships in our lives. Most of the times in our lives we try to find out some specific set of qualities in a person to accept them as our friends and judge them on those parameters as if life is an algebraic equation & we people are the variables & the equation will satisfy when LHS=RHS.
We categorise the people around us as either stranger or as one of our Close Friend,Best Friend,Childhood Friend,Intimate Friend,Trusted Friend,Beloved Friend. But whether you use adjectives or different words, few could deny the nearly infinite meaning in such a simple word.He who can teach someone to see a million miles with their feet planted firmly on the ground, surely deserves the honor of being called MY FRIEND.
(This week i wasn't well. But got some really great time for reading, introspection & learning few technical things i usually don't get time to do.The article is part of the thought process i was going through at that time about how all close relationships in life depend on the trust & understanding between any two persons, expressed in a small & beautiful word called friendship.)
Thursday, September 09, 2004
Is there a reason?
Some people turn to unhealthy habits and unconventional remedies, but for me, the answer was to share, to talk, to write, to express myself.So, I threw myself into learning, and started writing up.As a result, this blog has evolved. I'm sure it was not a fluke or a mistake - after all - with God, there are no mistakes. His ways are perfect, and sometimes it just takes a while to understand why certain things happen in our lives.
For me, it is actually a way to spend time expressing myself through this artistic creation, and I am delighted that through it, I have been able to gain from the lives & views of others all around the world. Now, that is...part of what I believe is God's plan for my life.
Monday, September 06, 2004
Brain fingerprinting to nab criminals?
Digital Relationships
I feel actually if we take all our relationships because we like it & dont drag as compromise with the social structure, they are digital.Otherwise why in this busy life we will go & talk to someone or vice versa.
Today is b'day of one of my school friends so this thought came to my mind again. I remembered him on his every b'day but had lost touch with him for some five years as his father got transferred. In between the only contact was through "once in a blue moon" emails.But for the past one year we are in touch again.He tells me about changes in his life in these years about his job,new friends, one of his very special friend whom he will marry soon,new place where he is now,anything & everything.We call each other once in a month or so but know that we are there to share thoughts when we need.(May be strange for all the ppl who think a guy & a gal cannot be just good friends.)
Saturday, September 04, 2004
Om or Aum
By sound and form, AUM symbolizes the infinite Brahman (ultimate reality).
U stands for Preservation
M stands for Destruction or dissolution
This is representative of the Trinity of God in Hindu dharma (Brahma, Vishnu and Shiva).The three portions of AUM relate to the states of waking, dream and deep sleep.The three letters also indicates three planes of existence, heaven (swarga), earth (martya) and netherworld (patala).
All the words produced by the human vocal organ can be represented by AUM. A is produced by the throat, U & M by the lips.In the Vedas, AUM is the sound of the Sun, the sound of Light. It is the sound of assent (affirmation) and ascent.
Thursday, September 02, 2004
New Earths ????
Tuesday's announcement by a U.S. team comes just a week after a competing European group revealed a similar discovery of a slightly less massive planet that most likely has a rocky surface and was billed as a "super Earth."
The other newest known planet is about 25 times as hefty as Earth. Its circular orbit is tight, too, a mere 2.64 Earth-days long, around the star Gliese 436.
Wednesday, September 01, 2004
A great way to demonstrate...!!
For in spite of his lonely past,Jonathan Seagull was born to be an instructor, and his own way of demonstrating love was to give something of the truth that he had seen to someone who asked only a chance to see truth for himself.
(The excerpt is taken from Jonathan Livingstone Seagull by Richard Bach to which I was diverted again after reading an article Living Your Dreams.)